April 17, 2025 · 8 min read

The rising cost of childcare—and how hosting an au pair can help

Key takeaways

  • The rising cost of daycare and nannies is leading many families to explore alternative childcare options.

  • Hosting an au pair can be a cost-effective solution, especially for families with multiple children.

  • Beyond childcare, hosting an au pair adds cultural exchange and long-term connection for the whole family.

Finding affordable and reliable childcare is one of the biggest challenges for families in the U.S. today. Parents are often faced with difficult decisions, from adjusting their work schedules to stretching their household budgets just to cover childcare expenses. Many families are now turning to hosting an au pair as a cost-effective and flexible alternative to traditional daycare and nannies. 

Read on to learn more about the rising cost of childcare, explore the benefits of hosting an au pair, and see why this option is becoming an increasingly popular solution for families across the country. 

Au pair care cost compared to daycare and nannies

Key Factors

Daycare

Nanny 

Au Pair 

Cost 

Can be expensive, especially with multiple kids 

Often expensive, whether hourly or salaried 

Competitive cost, fixed rate regardless of children 

Flexibility

Set work-week hours, no evenings or weekends 

Set work-week hours, unlike to cover evenings or weekends 

Up to 45 hours/week, schedule set by host family 

Personalized Care 

Care is shared among many children 

Dedicated childcare with a focus on family needs 

Dedicated childcare with a focus on family needs 

Cultural Exchange

Limited exposure to different cultures 

Possible exposure to different cultures, depending on nanny’s background

High exposure to different cultures—au pairs share their language, traditions, and customs 

Household Help

No household tasks included 

May assist with light tasks, depending on agreement 

Helps with child-related tasks like laundry, meals, and tidying 

Relationship

Caregivers change frequently 

Can be long-term if hired for years 

Close family bond, often lasting beyond the program year 

Availability 

May have long waitlists 

Depends on hiring availability 

Can match with an au pair quickly, including in-country rematch options 

The high cost of nannies and daycare  

Childcare costs have been rising for years, and in many states, families are spending a significant portion of their income on care. According to a report from Care.com, the average cost of a nanny in the U.S. is between $40,000 and $50,000 per year, with additional expenses such as payroll taxes and insurance adding even more to that total. 

Daycare, while often affordable for a single child, can quickly become costly for families with multiple children. Many daycare centers also have long waitlists, require non-refundable deposits, and struggle with staffing shortages—making it difficult for parents to secure consistent care. Beyond cost and availability, parents also have concerns about the quality of care. Studies have shown that children thrive in consistent and nurturing environments, and frequent caregiver turnover in daycare settings can disrupt that stability. 

Hosting an au pair: A flexible and cost-effective childcare option 

Many families are discovering that hosting an au pair is not only more affordable than other childcare options, but it also provides added flexibility and cultural benefits. 

Au pairs are young adults from around the world who come to the U.S. on a legal visa to provide live-in childcare. They can work up to 45 hours per week and help with child-related tasks such as meal preparation, laundry, and tidying up. 

The cost of hosting a Cultural Care au pair starts at approximately $1,755 per month1—regardless of the number of children in the household. This includes program fees, a minimum weekly stipend2 paid directly to the au pair, and additional costs such as meals and a private bedroom. 

For many families, hosting an au pair offers savings compared to hiring a nanny or paying for daycare, particularly for those with multiple children. 

Additional benefits of hosting an au pair 

Beyond affordability, Cultural Care host families often cite several added benefits of the program, including: 

1. Flexible schedules that meet your needs 

Unlike daycare centers with fixed hours or nannies with set schedules, au pairs can provide childcare that aligns with your family’s needs. Whether it’s early mornings, evenings, or weekends, au pairs offer a level of flexibility that other options simply don’t. 

“The balance in my household can be quite challenging. My husband is gone every other week, and I am full-time military. Recently, I had to attend a two-week military training, which our au pair and children joined on.  Sabrina showed incredible flexibility to work out of an unfamiliar location. She did a wonderful job of planning activities, keeping the children engaged, and working with my parents.” 

— Host mom Kimberly  

2. Consistency and personalized care 

Because au pairs live with your family, they become a stable presence in your child’s life. They help maintain routines, reinforce family values, and adapt to your parenting style. 

“My husband and I work long hours at the hospital, and it is comforting to know that our children are well cared for and safe under our au pair’s supervision. She has simplified our life and reduced our stress tremendously.” 

— Host mom Mary  

3. Cultural exchange and language exposure 

Hosting an au pair is a chance to introduce your children to new cultures, languages, and traditions. Many host families find that their children develop an early appreciation for global perspectives and even become bilingual along the way. 

“Our au pair Luz loves to share her culture with us daily, especially the food! She is a phenomenal cook and baker and has taught us how to make some Argentinian dishes from scratch. I intend to learn and perfect my favorite recipes to cook for her one day when she visits in the future.” 

— Host mom Amy  

4. A lifelong connection 

Many families build lasting relationships with their au pairs, staying in touch long after the program ends. Some even travel to visit their former au pairs abroad or host them again as extended family. 

“We started off as strangers and gained a new member of our family. We will always love and cherish [our au pair] Annie and we will forever be grateful in the role she has played in helping us raise our children.” 

— Host mom Jenny  

Is hosting an au pair right for your family? 

If you’re looking for a childcare solution that offers affordability, flexibility, and a unique cultural experience, hosting an au pair may be the perfect fit for your family. As the largest au pair agency in the U.S., Cultural Care has helped thousands of families find childcare that works for their needs. 

Want to learn more? Get started for free today to start exploring au pair candidates and see if this program is right for you. 

1Monthly minimum average cost to host an au pair, regardless of the number of children the au pair cares for. This cost includes the agency fees and the minimum weekly stipend paid directly to the au pair for 52 weeks, including 2 weeks of paid vacation. Does not include incidental costs of hosting an au pair, such as meals, insurance, and other amenities.

2Au pairs pay a smaller program fee to the foreign company that screens them, but no portion of that fee is used to pay for the costs of their international airfare or domestic U.S. transportation. Au pairs may be charged additional fees in the event of special travel requests.

3The U.S. Department of State has determined that au pairs are required to receive from their host families at least $195.75 per week. Host families and au pairs are free to discuss and agree to compensation higher than the required stipend minimum; however, this cannot be in exchange for the au pair exceeding the regulatory limits on working hours (10 hours per day; 45 hours per week) or performing duties beyond childcare-related tasks. The State Department formula is based on the federal minimum wage and applicable room and board credits. Any change in the federal minimum wage or the applicable credits will result in an increase in this minimum stipend amount. Please note, should a family extend beyond the first year, they would be responsible for the stipend for each week of the extension term.

4This contribution towards an au pair’s education requirement is determined by the U.S. Department of State, and families agree to comply with any increase that is issued.

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